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>> > 1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
>> > If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
>> > 2. Stop making excuses for a man and his>> > behavior.
>> >3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a>> > man's character, leave him alone.
>> >4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from>> > heartache.
>> >5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship>> > that's not meant to be.
>> >6. Don't force an attraction.
>> >7. Slower is better.
>> 8. Never live your life for a man before you find>> > what makes you truly happy.
>> >9. If a relationship ends because the man was not>> > treating you as you deserve then heck no you>> > can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a>> > friend.
>> 10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,>> > but don't let faith make you stupid. God does>> > things decent and in order.
>> 11. Don't settle.
>> 12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then>> > he probably is.
>> 13. If he keeps changing his mind about the>> > relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is>> > unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like>> > that?
>> 14. Don't stay because you think "it will get>> > better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for>> > staying when things are not better.
>> 15. Honorable men take care of their business>> > and aren't involved in a>> > whole lot of mess.
>> 16. The only person you can control in a>> > relationship is you.
17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you;>> > he doesn't want you.
>> 18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a>> > bunch of different women. He didn't marry them>> > when he got them pregnant, why would he treat>> > you any differently?
>> 19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before>> > finding the prince.
>> 20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.
>> 21. Always have your own set of friends separate>> > from his.
>> 22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If>> > something bothers you, speak up.
>> 23. If he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.
>> 24. Be honest and upfront.
>> 25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung>> > along.
>> 26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove>> > yourself from the situation to let him figure things>> > out (but don't wait for him, move on).
>> 27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will>> > treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his>> > family (not just mom).
>> 28. There's more than physical abuse, there's>> > emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of>> > them...flee.
>> 29. You cannot change a man's behaviors.>> > Change comes from within.
>> 30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not>> > willing to follow himself -- double-standard.
>> 31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more>> > important than you are...even if he has more>> > education or in a better job.
>> 32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a>> > man, nothing more nothing less.
>> 33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he>> > can't have you!
>> 34. Don't compete with other woman, but be>> > aware that men are attracted to what they see.
>> 35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is.>> > Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying,>> > let him go.
>> 36. Actions speak louder than words.
>> 37. Never let a man define who you are.
>> 38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to>> > yourself for that.
>> 39. Never borrow someone else's man.
>> 40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
>> 41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't>> > mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean>> > that you are meant to be with him.
>> 42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right'>> > the next time.
>> 43. Know that you deserve to be the number one>> > person in the life of the #1person in your life.
>> 44. Love is a verb ...
>> 45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to>> > make someone unavailable-available, someone>> > ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
>> 46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW>> > him to treat you.
>> 47. All men are NOT dogs.
>> 48. You should not be the one doing all the>> > bending...compromise is a two way street.
>> 49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone>> > else.
>> 50. You cannot mend someone else's broken>> > heart.
>> 51. You need time to heal between>> > relationships...there is nothing cute about>> > baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a>> > new relationship.
>> 52. You should never look for someone to>> > COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two>> > WHOLE individuals...look for someone>> > complementary...not supplementary.
>> 53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be>> > Mr. Right.
>> 54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you>> > are getting out of it.>> >> 55. Never become your man's "therapist".
>> 56. When actions and words conflict, believe the>> > actions. Respond to the actions.
>> 57. A real healthy relationship requires two>> > people. One person can end it - but it takes two to>> > make it work.
>> 58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving>> > type"...when>> > a man loves you there is nothing in this world>> > (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.
>> 59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man>> > always know where you are,>> > and you're always readily available to him he>> > takes it for granted.
>> 60. Give him his space...let him go out with his>> > boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you,>> > You cant force a man to hang out with>> > you.
>> 61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with>> > him you shouldn't.
>> 62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it>> > against you later.
>> 63. Never move into his mother's house.
>> 64. Provide financially for yourself and don't>> > depend on anyone.
>> 65. Never co-sign for a man.
>> 66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he>> > is so innocent.
>> 67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.
>> 68. Never let a man mess up your credit.
>> 69. When it's time to let go; let go.
>> 70. Good men should be treated like good men.
>> 71. Don't play games.
>> 72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give>> > you everything that you need.
>> 73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
>> 74. Compatibility in terms of educational>> > attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career>> > goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
>> 75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.
>> > If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
>> > 2. Stop making excuses for a man and his>> > behavior.
>> >3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a>> > man's character, leave him alone.
>> >4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from>> > heartache.
>> >5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship>> > that's not meant to be.
>> >6. Don't force an attraction.
>> >7. Slower is better.
>> 8. Never live your life for a man before you find>> > what makes you truly happy.
>> >9. If a relationship ends because the man was not>> > treating you as you deserve then heck no you>> > can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a>> > friend.
>> 10. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,>> > but don't let faith make you stupid. God does>> > things decent and in order.
>> 11. Don't settle.
>> 12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then>> > he probably is.
>> 13. If he keeps changing his mind about the>> > relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is>> > unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like>> > that?
>> 14. Don't stay because you think "it will get>> > better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for>> > staying when things are not better.
>> 15. Honorable men take care of their business>> > and aren't involved in a>> > whole lot of mess.
>> 16. The only person you can control in a>> > relationship is you.
17. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you;>> > he doesn't want you.
>> 18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a>> > bunch of different women. He didn't marry them>> > when he got them pregnant, why would he treat>> > you any differently?
>> 19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before>> > finding the prince.
>> 20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.
>> 21. Always have your own set of friends separate>> > from his.
>> 22. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If>> > something bothers you, speak up.
>> 23. If he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.
>> 24. Be honest and upfront.
>> 25. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung>> > along.
>> 26. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove>> > yourself from the situation to let him figure things>> > out (but don't wait for him, move on).
>> 27. If you want to have a clue as to how he will>> > treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his>> > family (not just mom).
>> 28. There's more than physical abuse, there's>> > emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of>> > them...flee.
>> 29. You cannot change a man's behaviors.>> > Change comes from within.
>> 30. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not>> > willing to follow himself -- double-standard.
>> 31. Don't EVER make him feel he is more>> > important than you are...even if he has more>> > education or in a better job.
>> 32. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a>> > man, nothing more nothing less.
>> 33. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he>> > can't have you!
>> 34. Don't compete with other woman, but be>> > aware that men are attracted to what they see.
>> 35. If you think he is cheating, he probably is.>> > Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying,>> > let him go.
>> 36. Actions speak louder than words.
>> 37. Never let a man define who you are.
>> 38. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to>> > yourself for that.
>> 39. Never borrow someone else's man.
>> 40. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
>> 41. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't>> > mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean>> > that you are meant to be with him.
>> 42. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right'>> > the next time.
>> 43. Know that you deserve to be the number one>> > person in the life of the #1person in your life.
>> 44. Love is a verb ...
>> 45. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to>> > make someone unavailable-available, someone>> > ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
>> 46. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW>> > him to treat you.
>> 47. All men are NOT dogs.
>> 48. You should not be the one doing all the>> > bending...compromise is a two way street.
>> 49. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone>> > else.
>> 50. You cannot mend someone else's broken>> > heart.
>> 51. You need time to heal between>> > relationships...there is nothing cute about>> > baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a>> > new relationship.
>> 52. You should never look for someone to>> > COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two>> > WHOLE individuals...look for someone>> > complementary...not supplementary.
>> 53. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be>> > Mr. Right.
>> 54. NEVER give more in a relationship than you>> > are getting out of it.>> >> 55. Never become your man's "therapist".
>> 56. When actions and words conflict, believe the>> > actions. Respond to the actions.
>> 57. A real healthy relationship requires two>> > people. One person can end it - but it takes two to>> > make it work.
>> 58. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving>> > type"...when>> > a man loves you there is nothing in this world>> > (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you.
>> 59. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man>> > always know where you are,>> > and you're always readily available to him he>> > takes it for granted.
>> 60. Give him his space...let him go out with his>> > boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you,>> > You cant force a man to hang out with>> > you.
>> 61. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with>> > him you shouldn't.
>> 62. Never let a man know everything. He will use it>> > against you later.
>> 63. Never move into his mother's house.
>> 64. Provide financially for yourself and don't>> > depend on anyone.
>> 65. Never co-sign for a man.
>> 66. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he>> > is so innocent.
>> 67. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you.
>> 68. Never let a man mess up your credit.
>> 69. When it's time to let go; let go.
>> 70. Good men should be treated like good men.
>> 71. Don't play games.
>> 72. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give>> > you everything that you need.
>> 73. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
>> 74. Compatibility in terms of educational>> > attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career>> > goals, and socioeconomic status, are important.
>> 75. Never date a guy who wears colored contacts.
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